Daily Reflection with Fr. Tomas Del Valle-Reyes

Dear Friends: Praying is not easy. Our daily routine calls for our full attention. And the world around us puts little value on prayer; our lives are full of material things but at the same time are getting emptier in God’s value.

For this reason, I will post a daily reflection and as you visit this site may the Holy Spirit within you come to your aid and guide you gently to the God who loves you

Thursday, June 20, 2013

Help me Love others..

Lord God, help me to love those
whom I find it difficult to love.
Give me a heart that reaches out
to those I would otherwise ignore.
Give me the strength not to cross
on the other side of the road
but to play the part of the Samaritan.
This will not be easy, Lord.
It is not in my nature.
We spread our love thinly
among those we can relate to
those who share our values
and those who do not threaten
our comfortable lifestyle.
It's not easy, Lord
and on our own we shall fail.
But with your help all things are possible.
You led the way
and it is your example that we look to.
You turned the values of this world upside down.
Do the same with us. Lord.
Help us live the reality of your Love.

Father Tomas Del Valle-Reyes

Thursday, June 13, 2013

“Thank God for your blessings”

If you think you have huge tension, look at them...

If you think your job is tough, how about him?

If you think your salary is low, how about her?

If you think you don't have many friends, ask yourself if you have one sincere friend...as... this Dog..

You think, study is a burden, how about her?

When you feel like giving up, think of this man..

If you think you suffer in life, do you suffer as much as he does?

If you complain about your transport system, how about them?

If your society is unfair to you, how about her?

Always 'be positive'...... No Matter What…

Father Tomas Del Valle-Reyes

Thursday, June 6, 2013

"Carrots - Eggs - or Coffee Beans?"

A daughter complained to her father about her life and how things were
so hard for her
. She did not know how she was going to make it and
wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed
as one problem was solved a new one arose.
Her father, a chef, took her to the kitchen. He filled three pots with
water and placed each on a high fire
. Soon the pots came to a boil. In
one he placed carrots, in the second he placed eggs, and the last he
placed ground coffee beans.
He let them sit and boil, without saying a
word. The daughter sucked her teeth and impatiently waited, wondering
what he was doing. In about twenty minutes he turned off the burners.
He fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. He pulled the eggs
out and placed them a bowl. Then he ladled the coffee out and placed it
in a bowl.
Turning to her he asked. "Darling, what do you see?" "Carrots, eggs,
and coffee,"
she replied. He brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. He then asked her
to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed
the hard-boiled egg. Finally, he asked her to sip the coffee. She
smiled as she tasted it and smelled its rich aroma. She humbly asked.
"What does it mean Father?"
He explained that each of them had faced the same adversity, boiling
water, but each reacted differently
. The carrot went in strong, hard,
and unrelenting. But after being subjected to the boiling water, it
softened and became weak.
The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer
shell had protected its liquid interior.

But after sitting through the
boiling water, its inside became hardened
. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water. "Which are you?" he asked his daughter. "When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg, or a
coffee bean? "
How about you? Are you the carrot that seems hard, but with pain and adversity do you wilt and become soft and lose your strength? Are you the egg, which starts off with a malleable heart? Were you a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a divorce, or a layoff have you become hardened and stiff? Your shell looks the same, but are you
bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and heart? Or are you like the
coffee bean? The bean changes the hot water, the thing that is bringing
the pain. When the water gets the hottest, it just tastes better. If
you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better
and make things better around you. How do you handle adversity? Are
you a carrot, an egg, or a coffee bean? "

~Author Unknown~

Father Tomas Del Valle-Reyes